Christmas is just about here and the last big build-up is upon us.
Here’s a good article about the Santa Claus issue — not from a religious standpoint, good for any parent raising kids in America.
A few words of advice
Whatever you do or don’t do for Christmas, make your peace with it now. Put on a happy face and don’t put a damper on your loved ones. If you are celebrating Christmas and it’s making you sad/mad/upset/annoyed or some other negative state of mind, remind yourself that you are doing this because someone you love wants this. Try to focus on the happiness you are providing them. Find good things to fill your thoughts – good food, good company, festive spirits. Remember how much you love these people and determine to make this a happy week for them.
Or maybe you are not having Christmas and that is making you blue. Again, you must be doing this because a person you love doesn’t want to have this event in your shared home. Focus on the love and comfort you are providing. Make a delicious dinner together; bake a winter treat. Light candles and sit in the candle light peacefully. Play some games you don’t usually get around to. Use December 25th to go for a walk in a wilderness area or out for dinner. Read aloud to each other.
Whatever you do, make sure that December 25 focuses on the love you share with your family and friends.
Then call me next week and we can discuss how to use this coming 12 months to retune next year’s December holidays.
I wish you happiness and love all around you. Remember that it is really the people you love that makes you rich. Go give them a long hug.
p.s. It is not too late to make someone else’s holiday better. You can drop off food or a check at your local food bank.