Children

Parenting has its Sacrifices

I recently heard from a Catholic woman asking for help in navigating her interfaith divorced family. Her ex-husband is Muslim and their two daughters were being raised with both religions until the divorce. Things have reached a very painful state. I will pause here and ask you to think about this… What do you think…

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The Fervently Jewish Child

One Jewish parent described her preschooler as having become very excited about Judaism. Mom said her child was expected her to “do Jewish” at a much higher level than she had even done before. Her daughter wants Shabbat each week, insisted on going to adult services for the High Holidays and wanted a sukkah in…

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Posted in Children
Published on October 26th, 2010

When Kids ask “Jewish” questions of their non-Jewish Parent

Many non-Jewish parents feel, I’m not Jewish and I don’t know how to teach my kids about something I never learned and I don’t believe. What do I do? If your child got the assignment to do a report on Hinduism or Socialism you wouldn’t have to be a Hindu or a Socialist to know…

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Posted in Children
Published on October 24th, 2010

My Child is “Half” Me

How can our child be half of each of us and still be one religious identity? In a recent workshop a Jewish parent was concerned that their spouse needed to feel that their child is “half” him and they weren’t sure how to make that half something other than half-Jewish and half-Catholic. Look at what…

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Posted in Children
Published on October 22nd, 2010

Feeling like the “Outsider Parent”

In a recent workshop a mother spoke of the challenges from her own interfaith upbringing and her desire to avoid being the odd-parent-out, as one of her own parents had been. Being the non-Jewish parent in a Jewish family may feel “other” because you did not have a Jewish childhood, don’t know much about Jewish…

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Posted in Children
Published on October 20th, 2010