A meaningful life

Finding Your Own Way

  Recently I was with a couple of women, each of whom is married to a non-Jewish man. The first, I’ll call her Lisa, expressed her opinions with great intensity. She had strong beliefs on how to deal with an interfaith marriage, what to do, how to act, what to teach your children, how to…

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Tisha B’Av: Mourning the Destruction of the ancient Temple in Jerusalem

When we look at this photograph of a relief on the Arch of Titus celebrating his siege and destruction of Jerusalem, that historical event can feel as old and foreign as the stones depicting it. Yet for Jews the idea of ‘never forget’ is not a new one. Jews remember the events of the past,…

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Finding Some Quietude in the Summer

  I saw an article titled, “How to Prepare Your Kids for Summer.” Wow, whose kids are these? Are they from Mars and unaccustomed to our atmosphere? The way my kids prepare for summer is with whoops and hollers. Summer is utter freedom, no homework, sleep late and dig for emeralds in the backyard. Yes,…

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Father’s Day

Sunday is Father’s Day. A day to be grateful for all the guys in our lives who are, or function as, our dads. Dads, in case you didn’t think you were so important compared to moms, here’s little ego booster: In her book, Lean In, Sheryl Sandberg says, “Children with involved and loving fathers have…

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